What If's

"...Day 8, Wednesday: A piece of advice you have for others. Anything at all..."

I'm not one to be dishing out advice, because I rarely take the advice given back to me. It's not at all that I don't like taking someone's advice, it's just that I like living and learning from my own mistakes. It helps me grow. 

But, if I were to tell you one thing, it would be to stop dwelling over the "what if's" in life. You won't get anywhere by questioning yourself hundreds of could-be scenarios in your head. If it does anything, it clouds your sight set on where you are meant to be in that moment. This is not to say that you can't set dreams, or goals, or ambitions. Set the bar high. Reach for the stars. But, don't beat yourself up because you aren't where you wanted to be at that specific time in your life.

I'm a huge believer in the quote "everything happens for a reason." In any given moment, you are exactly where you were meant to be.

What advice do you have for me?


  1. I love the post. I have added you on blogloving, but more importantly I added you on my bookmarked blogs to follow. : D

    I think most people don't like to receive advice unless they are searching for it. Everything does seem to happen for a reason and there really is no reason to dwell over the "What ifs"

    Hopefully the "What ifs" propel you forward to take action so you won't have those What ifs.

    My advice is only one word. It is advice that I have to remind myself of all the time. I even have it tatooed on my wrist.


    1. Thank you so much! That means a lot!

      Patience is just something I've always lacked. And it's something I've always struggled with to this day.